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Wednesday, 1 June 2016

THE BEFITTING BURIAL

“Ojukwu has declared a state of emergency. Everyone get ready. Does the battle catch up with the cripple if he heard the news beforehand?  What I’m seeing from here, if you children like, climb the Nkwu (palm tree), you won’t see anything. Will an old woman be at home and the goat puts to birth with a rope on its neck, mba nu! (No).  That’s why I’m talking oo.” Daa Mgbechi’s voice continued in the distance but at this point I couldn’t make out what she was saying. Two teenagers beside me were discussing her, so I listened.
“Announcer has come again. Which one did Ojukwu do now?” One said.
“Or who knows, Biafra is now an independent republic?” The other replied with a mocking laughter.
“Announcer’s madness is getting worse each day.” The first retorted with more seriousness. “It didn’t used to be this bad. She used to run a provision store down the road. I wonder where her people are.”

I stood for a moment thinking about my aunt, Daa Mgbechi. Daa Mgbechi is not really my aunt because she is the daughter of my grandfather’s brother. So, what do I call that kind of relationship? Anyway, it doesn’t matter as long as we all live in the same compound, which is not really proper because Daa Mgbechi is a married woman who should be in her husband’s compound. The only problem is that Daa Mgbechi is not married, so she does not have a husband. Let me share a little family gossip with you. My other siblings don’t even know about this. I know because I’m close to my father and I helped him prepare the family history on paper last two years.

Daa Mgbechi’s father, Okoro, didn’t have a son. He only had two daughters, Mgbechi and Afoma. Unfortunately, in my place, Nkwonta, a man who has only daughters is as good as a childless person. Once the daughters get married, his name is gone. To avoid his name being wiped off our family history and of course this world the way a child wipes his behind after excreting, Okoro made his daughters have children for him at home; what we call “ikuchie.” It is accepted in our custom and widely practiced by sonless fathers like my great uncle, Okoro. Afoma, the elder daughter had two sons, while Mgbechi had one daughter, Mmanwa.  

So, you can imagine my disappointment and resentment and embarrassment and all those emotions I can’t even spell now when I found out two Christmas ago that Mmanwa is Daa Mgbechi’s daughter.  All these years I’ve watched Daa Mgbechi run mad and roam the streets enjoying her freedom,yet I didn’t know she had a child. I really thought she was one childless woman in our compound. How dare she? How could Mmanwa let that woman wander about, sleeping on the streets when she knows she’s the only thing Daa Mgbechi has?

That Christmas, I didn’t even want to set my eyes on her, not to talk of greeting her. I was really angry with her. That same Christmas, Daa Mgbechi slept under a shed, beside the generator house, outside Daa Afoma’s house. You see why I’m very angry. Daa Afoma is a rich business woman who would have nothing to do with her sister, Daa Mgbechi. Daa Afoma has a big house but Daa Mgbechi sleeps outside on the floor with her wrapper as her only bedding. On that same Christmas, each time Daa Afoma passes Daa Mgbechi lying beside her generator house, muttering to herself or sleeping, I wonder what goes on in Daa Afoma’s mind.

Now, I’ve stopped wondering because whatever is going on in her mind will not be good.  If it were, Daa Mgbechi will not be sleeping outside: and I don’t want to be thinking about bad things. I don’t even bother thinking about what Daa Mgbechi is thinking-her head is filled with madness. How can I be thinking about madness? However, it bothered me that Daa Mgbechi was sleeping outside. What if it rained in the night or a snake crawled out from anywhere or any other unforeseen and unfavorable circumstance occured? It really bothered me that Christmas but it pained me that Daa Mgbechi has a daughter Mmanwa yet she sleeps outside. It even pained me the more that Daa Afoma has a house, a big fine house and her only sister sleeps outside in the cold. I hate to think about it but sometimes I can’t help it.


Culled from: The Befitting Burial and Other Stories. I wrote this piece for an African-writers’ Competition. Enjoy!
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